Advice required - potential no show coming up

[guest]

Go to the police and say what. I got scammed by a hooker in attempt to pay her for sex. I don't know how the police will react. These cases happens everyday and the frequency of scams in these markets are high. The police will mark your case least important and will quietly drop it. These organized crimes exists because those WGS know they can cheat the system. We punters are the stupid ones

[Strawberryblonde]

Good work Nova. Thought so from the wording of the response. I hope this all gets sorted.

[Lanilor]

@guest

Go to the police and say I paid an escort to spend time with her. There is nothing illegal about escorting and in my communications I do not mention sex at all, as much I asked for help based on your other posts please stop replying on my thread

[Nova70]

A couple of quotes from her profile and their real meaning..............

"I am a Courtesan with a passion for the finer things in life" and the translation.............I'm not really cut out to be a prostitute but because I'm a bit of a looker I've found I can con middle aged, middle class guys into buying me stuff.

"The build up of sexual desire and tension stems from a meeting of the minds and not just physical attraction" and the translation.............I'm going to talk for as long as possible to run down the time during a booking and if I'm really lucky we'll spend no more than 5 minutes actually having sex

Don't get me wrong I find a sharp mind a real turn-on but sex is the commodity we're buying and selling and I can smell the BS on profiles like this.

[Lanilor]

@nova

I was alright with that until the middle aged, just ticked 30.

[Nova70]

@strawberry 

Of course not, one confirmed booking which was when "her mum died" but she was emailing me all that day.

One unconfirmed booking which she didn't respond to me about on the day but confirmed in mails before hand.

@nova

Still in contact with her currently as I've apparently cost her 3 bookings next week with my feedback. She insists though that her bank is reversing the transaction and if it isn't cleared by Monday she will transfer the money to my account.

As she's not just a scammer I've got a feeling you will get your money back, well done for handling it in a calm and sensible way, it must be tempting to go on to a forum and have a real rant calling her all the names under the sun but that can turn out to be counter productive, remember to google in future it can save you both time and money.

[Nova70]

@nova

I was alright with that until the middle aged, just ticked 30.

LOL, sorry..............and you haven't been conned either you just didn't do your homework.

[Lanilor]

I've worked in a manufacturing business and find that keeping your head in that situation works well throughout life as well. What has been done has happened you can only change the future so no need to get pissed off at the past.

Also what's the point of getting angry and vindictive, only makes you worse than them.

[Pedro]

This needs to be reported, my advice is keep feedback to basics and don't fly off the handle. Many SPs do use common sense, many also do not rely on nor even ask about feedback -  some will take phone only.

Not quoting this user. Just this phone is not the best.

Anyway, it may be hard to take action unless the police could dust for prints. Sorry this happened. A lot of women choose to share another WG's accommodation to avoid having this sort of abuse happen, but even so, women are not usually physically able to fight back and then her friend could be injured as well. Be sure to see members with feedback only. That way, the website technicians could trace an IP address.

[Strawberryblonde]

This needs to be reported, my advice is keep feedback to basics and don't fly off the handle. Many SPs do use common sense, many also do not rely on nor even ask about feedback -  some will take phone only.

Not quoting this user. Just this phone is not the best.

Anyway, it may be hard to take action unless the police could dust for prints. Sorry this happened. A lot of women choose to share another WG's accommodation to avoid having this sort of abuse happen, but even so, women are not usually physically able to fight back and then her friend could be injured as well. Be sure to see members with feedback only. That way, the website technicians could trace an IP address.

When a crime has been commited mobile phone data can also be used as evidence, no prints required. There are lots of ways to identify people if they need to - also he has her bank account details, which is very easy to trace.