French Kissing.

[hornynomad]

In another thread Freddo raised the subject of French kissing and the difficulty in finding an escort who will genuinely do it. He was also reluctant to admit that this was something he looked for and thought it might seem a bit "lame". Freddo, I'm with you on this and, in fact, I think that French kissing is at the top of the list as far as whether a meeting with an escort is truly enjoyable or not. If an escort will willingly do it from the outset (after the "paperwork") then I know I am in for an enjoyable time. But you're right, it is a minefield and I also don't particularly like the "at discretion" included in many profiles. I always try and present myself in as clean and fresh manner as possible to avoid any suggestion of being off-putting in any way. But some escorts are still reluctant to go beyond a kiss on the lips, often no more than a peck! I remember the most stunning girl I ever visited offered no more than a quick kiss and avoided any more kissing during the meeting - it turned into the most disappointing experience. Unfortunately, she didn't use the AW booking system (she was an AW escort though) so I couldn't leave any appropriate feedback - perhaps that was the warning sign!

[simo22]

I am with you on all counts hornynomad.
why do some ladies tick french kissing and french kissing at discretion (what does this mean)
A good snog is integral to a session for me and so i do check availability with the lady during the messaging stage.
I also emphasise my oral hygiene as a non smoker/drinker, toothpaste/polo user.
If the initial snogs 'flow and gel' then it is a sign of sexual compatibility for me, if they are 'lumpy and out of sync' then this does not bode well. I understand that fk tails off during the session and may end with just a peck on leaving and this is fine. Why though is the act of fk seen as something special more so than anything else by some. How can a lady be fine with penis, sperm and whatever else in her mouth but say no to tongues?

[iluvjem]

I always try and present myself in as clean and fresh manner as possible to avoid any suggestion of being off-putting in any way.

why do some ladies tick french kissing and french kissing at discretion (what does this mean)

The simple answer to "at discretion", as I have this, is it gives me the right to refuse (not that I dont have the right to refuse anything with good reason but I dont make any promises here from the beginning)! It would be nice to think all men make this effort but they don't.

Over the years be it on cam or escorting I have learnt if I don't think I am going to be to do something to a satisfactory level I will say no rather then disappoint.

How can a lady be fine with penis, sperm and whatever else in her mouth but say no to tongues?

That is a very simplistic..horny male way to think . It is very different. Kissing is a very very intimate thing that requires both sides in harmony for it to work and this is not always the case... Does that make any sense?

[simo22]

hi iluvjem,
thanks for taking the time to answer, i feel honoured. :-}
i understand the 'at discretion' tag and respect that on a girl's profile but what bugs me is when they tick fk and fk at discretion. just tick one or the other to avoid simpletons like me getting confused.
have to agree with your other response of a simplistic horny male view, c'mon you would be disappointed if i was anything else.

[iluvjem]

hi iluvjem,
thanks for taking the time to answer, i feel honoured. :-}
i understand the 'at discretion' tag and respect that on a girl's profile but what bugs me is when they tick fk and fk at discretion. just tick one or the other to avoid simpletons like me getting confused.
have to agree with your other response of a simplistic horny male view, c'mon you would be disappointed if i was anything else.

No you are quite right...I would be disappointed ha ha

Ticking both is just stupid I think some probably do it without thinking. It's one of those sections most girls do when they first do there profile and never look at it again! It may be worth pointing it out as they probably never realised/thought about the confusion it would cause otherwise.

[sarahxxx]

hi iluvjem,
thanks for taking the time to answer, i feel honoured. :-}
i understand the 'at discretion' tag and respect that on a girl's profile but what bugs me is when they tick fk and fk at discretion. just tick one or the other to avoid simpletons like me getting confused.
have to agree with your other response of a simplistic horny male view, c'mon you would be disappointed if i was anything else.

Many profiles are very confusing when it comes to likes dislikes and then read the FAQ's, to enlighten you on the meaning behind the two

French Kissing: if a girl has this box ticked it means that she may or may not offer you this service, if she does she may charge extra for it. But it is at her discretion if she offers it or not

French Kissing At discretion: Does what is says on the tin, if a girl has this box ticked it means that she may or may not offer you this service, if she does she may well charge extra for it. But it is at her discretion if she offers it or not

I hope that helps you understand the meaning of these two options

You can also assume that she will only actually meetyou at her discretion adn should she do so, anything else she does will also be at her discretion.

Sarah x x x

[hornynomad]

hi iluvjem,
thanks for taking the time to answer, i feel honoured. :-}
i understand the 'at discretion' tag and respect that on a girl's profile but what bugs me is when they tick fk and fk at discretion. just tick one or the other to avoid simpletons like me getting confused.
have to agree with your other response of a simplistic horny male view, c'mon you would be disappointed if i was anything else.

Many profiles are very confusing when it comes to likes dislikes and then read the FAQ's, to enlighten you on the meaning behind the two

French Kissing: if a girl has this box ticked it means that she may or may not offer you this service, if she does she may charge extra for it. But it is at her discretion if she offers it or not

French Kissing At discretion: Does what is says on the tin, if a girl has this box ticked it means that she may or may not offer you this service, if she does she may well charge extra for it. But it is at her discretion if she offers it or not

I hope that helps you understand the meaning of these two options

You can also assume that she will only actually meetyou at her discretion adn should she do so, anything else she does will also be at her discretion.

Sarah x x x

I understand where you are coming from Sarah and totally respect the right of any escort to choose what she does with whom - it's her body after all. However, it does make a bit of a mockery of the list of "do's" which are included on profiles and means a lot of guys are going to be very disappointed! What does help though is when an escort includes in her profile words to the effect that both parties have the right to back down on first meeting if things don't live up to expectations (on both sides). Don't know where we stand once money has changed hands and the "business" has begun though. "Discretion" can cover a multitude of sins (if you'll excuse the pun).

[sarahxxx]

Bottom line is some girls will do whatever they feel gets you through the door. It really does not matter if youare happy or not

Those that are happy may return
Those that are not happy may not, but some still will.

If you visit a girl and she has lied on her profile you may not return, but if she had not lied she would not have taken your money the first time. She is better off by lying.

Sorry but that is the facts and there are no rights for you the customer, once you have parted with your cash it is gone and unlikely to return.

Buyer beware as they say and never pay to view girls photos before speaking with them on the phone

It is not right but it happens and has been that way for many years, so nothing new.

Sarah x x x

[iluvjem]

However, it does make a bit of a mockery of the list of "do's" which are included on profiles

Profiles are a mockery full stop as the majority don't bother reading them.

This fact will probably never change and will be moaned about until the end of whoretime. Guys probably put more effort in choosing a film to watch at the cinema for £15 than they do choosing an escort for £100+

I probably went through a time where I constantly looked at my profile, how can it be changed, worded differently etc etc

We all have a "to do" list but mine is pretty much ignored like the rest of my profile. A very valid question and point is being made in this thread but I think in truth most escorts are just surprised someone actually noticed!

[hornynomad]

However, it does make a bit of a mockery of the list of "do's" which are included on profiles

Profiles are a mockery full stop as the majority don't bother reading them.

This fact will probably never change and will be moaned about until the end of whoretime. Guys probably put more effort in choosing a film to watch at the cinema for £15 than they do choosing an escort for £100+

I probably went through a time where I constantly looked at my profile, how can it be changed, worded differently etc etc

We all have a "to do" list but mine is pretty much ignored like the rest of my profile. A very valid question and point is being made in this thread but I think in truth most escorts are just surprised someone actually noticed!

Since I have to ration my escorting quite severely I spend a lot of time studying profiles and have generally taken them seriously. Now it seems I shouldn't have! I'm confused - are you saying that I should really expect the whole punting game, including AW, as just pot luck?