A simple question...(rant in disguise!)

[Emily of Halifax]

Summed up in one word sugar WANKER

[tinkerbell]

i would never move social plans either,.....i had about 3 clients on CHRISTMAS DAY! asking for a booking,.....which shocked me sideways

[sophieofyork]

bless, poor rac man having a break down. You could have offered him some tlc at a small fee.

i'm not sure if anyone gets that it was a joke?? maybe not a very good one mind, my sense of humour is a bit crap

[SassyAnn]

I think everyone got it was a joke. It's just their warped senses of humour.

[English Kate]

lol Sugar you don't seem to realise that we are far more warped than you and just extending the joke lol. Call it a miss spent youth and overly active imagination.

The social thing is one of the reasons I got a little annoyed with a fellow Escort friend of mine. On several occasions we had arranged to go out to the cinema or a meal together and at the last minute she would bail out saying she had a booking. She didn't understand why I was so annoyed. I was looking forward to taking a break with a friend and had said no to potential clients, so it was a real bone of contention.

She now knows if we make a plan unless something happens that is really important, we don't cancel on each other.

[zoekent]

Kate is right no confirmation in morning then forget it .have zero tolerance if someone does not let me know if they can not make it .no more bookings no exceptions , let one bloke run few years back as he claimed friend had died , next time it was again friend ,3rd time it was his nan ,4th time it was again a friend .in between times he actually visited twice .got bored playing and said no thanks ,explained we were now friends and as 3 of his friends had died on the day he was due to visit i suspected he was a bit of a jinx and i quite fancied living to an old age . pretty sure he thought i was serious !

[English Kate]

haha that is hilarious Zoe, I love it. That back fired on him big time.

[kinkydirtybitch]

I'm sure we all just crack on with doing something else like going on cam if we're all dolled up!

We are NEVER at their mercy - only that of our own emotions which we often allow to spiral out of control. Emotional continence in this job = vital!

[English Kate]

I'm sure we all just crack on with doing something else like going on cam if we're all dolled up!

We are NEVER at their mercy - only that of our own emotions which we often allow to spiral out of control. Emotional continence in this job = vital!

Good point kinky and I think it is important to distinguish between working time and 'me' time. Never give up something you want to do for yourself for a booking and then if they turn out to be a TW you haven't missed out on 'life' just found your self with time to do alternative work.

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

If we all had a fiver for every guy that said 'I'll call you when I'm in the area' then we would be very very rich or even anything similar.

We all know that is just an excuse to get off the phone, but would we rather they said that or would we rather they say 'oh you sound like a minger, I wouldnt touch you with a bargepole' or 'oh no you dont sound as if you would do anything for me'. I would rather have the first option.

Personally, I dont even take a confirmation as a 100% booking. Until the guys walk through the front door I dont count them at all. And like most of the other girls I most definitely wouldnt put off anything in my personal life for a booking. That is a sure way for things to turn out to be a No Show.