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when should a booking end?
#1
Ladies

When do you end a booking?

When a guy cums, or once the time they have paid for draws to an end?

Is it wrong for a guy to want to carry on to the end of the booked time? If they cum early in the booking?

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#2
Me when we feel like it,then i am bit unusual lol
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#3
i dont care actually if it over runs
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#4
I'm not the best person to ask. I tend to let guys go over time.
I did get upset a couple of times when 2 punters came and went. Usually guys come a couple of times. They've both become regulars though, so that might be what they prefer to do. They did seem the 'busy, busy' types.
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#5
I normally let the guy take the lead if he feels that he wants to go as soon as the deed is done that is his decision
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#6
Same as Emily really. As far as I am concerned they have a certain amount of time and if they leave early that will be because they decide to and nothing to do with me. There have been a few times when I have been talking lots and the time flows past into the next hour, but lets face it, with a motor mouth like mine, I can hardly penalise the guy for being polite. With regulars it is swings and roundabouts anyway, sometimes it may cut a bit short and other times run over. It tends to balance out.
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#7
Id have thought, if she can, and she fancies him or is enjoying the sex then she should let him know she doesnt mind him staying till whenever.
But if she doesnt fancy him then time is up as per her hourly rate of what he's paid for.

Many escorts dont do that though, its just all about the money so what he pays is what he gets regardless if he is brad pitt and the best shag in the world.
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(22-05-2011, 14:29)Tom30 Wrote: Id have thought, if she can, and she fancies him or is enjoying the sex then she should let him know she doesnt mind him staying till whenever.
But if she doesnt fancy him then time is up as per her hourly rate of what he's paid for.

Many escorts dont do that though, its just all about the money so what he pays is what he gets regardless if he is brad pitt and the best shag in the world.

I know what you are saying there Tom, but I don't think you are right, at least not entirely right. I have had times when I have really enjoyed being with someone, not necessarily because I fancy them, but because they are great company or the sex is really clicking. However, part of me tells me that I need to remain professional, as in all jobs that I have done, you find that if you give an inch people will take a mile and start to take things for granted.

Sometimes things go in a certain way and it feels wrong to end things when you know they should be, the emotional side takes over or if things are getting close to climax, then again it would be quite cruel to just stop things dead, but continuing with no real structure on a regular basis is bad practice and I do think it is more about professionalism and boundaries than money for most of us.
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#9
Most of my bookings end within ten to fifteen minutes of the agreed time. I guess the time as i'm going and usually manage it pretty well.

I've never cut someone off, and have stayed up to three times as long as the agreed meeting time in the past.

I have no problems with staying with my clients longer, but there has to be the understanding that I have a full time job, a part time course and social events to keep up with, so sometimes it's no disrespect to my clients but I simply cannot stay with them longer than for what they have booked.
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#10
(22-05-2011, 15:48)sugar-11 Wrote: Most of my bookings end within ten to fifteen minutes of the agreed time. I guess the time as i'm going and usually manage it pretty well.

I've never cut someone off, and have stayed up to three times as long as the agreed meeting time in the past.

I have no problems with staying with my clients longer, but there has to be the understanding that I have a full time job, a part time course and social events to keep up with, so sometimes it's no disrespect to my clients but I simply cannot stay with them longer than for what they have booked.

There is also the aspect of losing out on work. I don't know about you, but I always put my phone on silent or leave it in another room when I'm with a client, so we are not disturbed. If it's half an hour past the agreed time and you're missing calls, then you're likely to either miss contact with someone who wants to confirm with you, or would have booked you if you had answered.

I don't think anyone can afford to lose work just because they're having a good time. I mean it is also a means to an end, which is to pay bills, pay off debts or towards a better future for kids etc.

Lastly, I don't think it is fair to dramatically treat clients differently from each other. They all pay good money and deserve the same service. If the client is finding the time they are booking is not enough, they should really book longer to accomodate their needs.

Please don't read this and assume that I am not flexible, as I am and wouldn't have the regulars that I do have if I was not, but... we do have lives, needs and many of us dependents and time is in short supply, so it really should be managed where possible. Having no time structure in life is a dangerous thing and can lead to break downs, food problems and fatigue and sometimes you have to be strict with yourself in order to maintain a good healthy balance in life.
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