Difficulty cumming with a condom

[ShyCumbriaGuy]

Its funny u know I find I have the same problem, believe me when I say that I really don't have any problem getting hard but as soon as a rubber goes on it just feels like the life is bein choked out of it! Now I'm not blowing my own trumpet but I find it down to being really thick( I know ur all goin yeah yeah lol) Now with the missus I find when bareback as soon as I penetrate I need to go real easy or I almost cum right away(u can all say aaah now lol!) Therefore I find I tend to concentrate on oral and the other foreplay stuff cause I know I will come early during sex.....sniffsniff!

[davidseven]

I do have problems with relaxing into a new situation, and was shocked the first time I failed to come. It is all in the mind though, and its a matter of adjustment.
Always wise to mention anything like this prior to a booking, most ladies will be understanding.
I have used a femidom once and it was surprisingly effective once you get past the
cellophane style rustling sound it makes.

[kinkydirtybitch]

I had a boyfriend who had the same problem. Needless to say we did not last very long! I don't have bareback with uncharted individuals, whether they are on the payroll or not!

All my bj's are covered with escorting clients so they would have to be hard before it can be covered.

[curvy crumpet]

As someone who has spent most of their life having sex without a condom (that's with wives or very long term partner) when I've been with an escort I have difficulty having an orgasm while wearing a condom or even sometimes staying hard. This is no reflection on the lady I'm with who never fails to make cum otherwise! I wouldn't have intercourse without one so usually resort to masturbation (self or by escort). So how do you ladies feel about this? I would add that one of my greatest pleasures is giving oral to a woman and love to masturbate in a face sitting position. What are the thoughts on this?

Have you tried slipping a cock ring on before you start with foreplay? Or is foreplay not on the cards with the escorts you visit and in foreplay i mean...

Sensual stimulating massage in all the right places
Kissing
Taking her time in oral i.e. licking balls and playing down there whilst oral etc...

A cock ring will help you maintain your hard on once the condom is slipped on.

[curvy crumpet]

Has anyone ever used the female condoms? I know when they first came out, it was said that it felt like making love to a plastic bag! I wonder if they've improved? Would you use one?

Ive noticed on some escorts profiles they say they offer female condom so it makes it feel like youre having bareback sex. I thought wtf? id rather use a condom at least then it doesnt feel like im diving into a wet jiffy bag. But for them to say that on their profile just goes to show some men prefer them, myself though... prefer a wank, by far, very far, out of this galaxy and all that, ha.

The risk with femidom is that it can slip in and disappear into the abyss so to speak and then you will be fucking bareback.

If a client does not want to use a cock ring, i give him alternatives i.e tit wank etc.

[SassyAnn]

I have a client here in Ireland who says he normally loses his hard on with a condom. I used a Mates King Size on him and he didn't lose it. I reckon he was using condoms that are too tight for him. A guy near home as well is huge, and he always used Magnums, he's found the Mates King Size to be much better for him, and was really pleased to have discovered them. I think his cock was being strangled!

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[MrSmith767]

Never had an issue, condoms are a fact of life!

[hornynomad]

Have you tried slipping a cock ring on before you start with foreplay? Or is foreplay not on the cards with the escorts you visit and in foreplay i mean...

Sensual stimulating massage in all the right places
Kissing
Taking her time in oral i.e. licking balls and playing down there whilst oral etc...

A cock ring will help you maintain your hard on once the condom is slipped on.

I positively love foreplay with the escorts I visit hence my previous answer - In response to the comment on it being not just about "the wily and fanny" I love stimulative foreplay, especially oral (kissing, breasts, clitoris, anywhere that can be orally stimulated).

Not tried a cock ring though but interested to see if it helps.

[sweetestmelinda]

I honestly think most condoms strangle the hardon out of the shaft even on average size guys.. With the magnum XLs it seems they never skrinky dink.