First booking

[ukfella1]

Hi guys hope everyone's ok? Well I've done it I've found the girl I wanna book for the first time. Thanx for the advice people have me in previous posts but I could do with some more advice (sorry). I'd like to know if anyone has ever booked somebody and they have been physically shaking with nerves? How can you overcome it? Is it really that easy to tell if your a first timer? Would it be best to dress smart but casual? And does it really bother you ladies if a client shoots their load to early? If I could get a response to this post by as many people as possible I'd really appreciate it. Thanx guys :-)

[sarahxxx]

How you dress is entirely up to you, but as you seem nervous, it is best that you dress how you feel the most relaxed, if wearing a suit gives you more confidence, then do it....

Shooting your load early is not unusual, but if you feel that it is a problem then try and relax, take your time to do what you want to do to make the most of your time / experience. Unfortunately most guys will want to rush straight into the sex, end up shooting their load early and leave feeling embarrassed.

Sarah x x x

[x Connie x]

just relax honey, i'm sure you'll be find. if you've took your time and booked a nice girl, which it sounds like you have, she'll soon set you at ease.

make sure you're on time, nice and clean and have her fee ready.

i wdn't worry about how 'quick' you'll be - if you feel like you can explain this then do - that way you can decide if you're going to 'go' again or the lady can take her time with you if you only want to cum once.

have a great time

[Sparky]

I don't think it is possible for a human being to be more nervous than I was on my first booking! I can totally see why some people back out at the last minute. It took me literally months to pluck up courage, but once I make my mind up to do something, I do it no matter what. Still only had 5 punts, but the nerves are now a bit more under control

Try and relax, you are there for fun after all, and the girl will be used to nervous clients. Make sure you tell her what you want from the booking, what you like etc., good communication is key.

Dress wise, wear whatever you are comfortable in as long as you look respectable. I prefer smart casual myself.

I had the opposite problem to shooting early - worrying about stuff will put pressure on you and lessen your enjoyment. Go with the flow, relax, enjoy yourself, and good luck!

[ukfella1]

I don't think it is possible for a human being to be more nervous than I was on my first booking! I can totally see why some people back out at the last minute. It took me literally months to pluck up courage, but once I make my mind up to do something, I do it no matter what. Still only had 5 punts, but the nerves are now a bit more under control

Try and relax, you are there for fun after all, and the girl will be used to nervous clients. Make sure you tell her what you want from the booking, what you like etc., good communication is key.

Dress wise, wear whatever you are comfortable in as long as you look respectable. I prefer smart casual myself.

I had the opposite problem to shooting early - worrying about stuff will put pressure on you and lessen your enjoyment. Go with the flow, relax, enjoy yourself, and good luck!

Where you shaking that much you were like a washing machine on overtime? Lol that's what I'll probably be like lol. No I understand what your saying about people backing out at last minute. Have you found that if you visit the same escort more than once then your become more confident with escort and less nervous? Would you say ringing an escort is better than email? And what about downstairs? Should I shave my balls and pubic area or not? Thanks for this mate :-)

[Sparky]

I don't think it is possible for a human being to be more nervous than I was on my first booking! I can totally see why some people back out at the last minute. It took me literally months to pluck up courage, but once I make my mind up to do something, I do it no matter what. Still only had 5 punts, but the nerves are now a bit more under control

Try and relax, you are there for fun after all, and the girl will be used to nervous clients. Make sure you tell her what you want from the booking, what you like etc., good communication is key.

Dress wise, wear whatever you are comfortable in as long as you look respectable. I prefer smart casual myself.

I had the opposite problem to shooting early - worrying about stuff will put pressure on you and lessen your enjoyment. Go with the flow, relax, enjoy yourself, and good luck!

Where you shaking that much you were like a washing machine on overtime? Lol that's what I'll probably be like lol. No I understand what your saying about people backing out at last minute. Have you found that if you visit the same escort more than once then your become more confident with escort and less nervous? Would you say ringing an escort is better than email? And what about downstairs? Should I shave my balls and pubic area or not? Thanks for this mate :-)

I wouldn't say I was that bad, although I did shake the poor girl off the bed when she tried to get next to me

I've visited one girl twice and was far more relaxed second time round. Sort of takes any doubts away from both sides really, and it gives you a bit of confidence that if she would accept a second booking from you so you can't have been that bad, lol!

That said I didn't feel nervous at all about the girl I saw last week, after a couple of emails and texts I couldn't wait to see her. Just booked a repeat performance

Most of the girls I've seen seem to prefer email, and then text if she sends her number. I just go with whatever she requests, as I'm happy to communicate by any method. If I specifically wanted to speak to her, I'd ask if it was ok to call and agree when.

I think most ladies would prefer some trimmage down below.....maybe they can confirm.
It can be tricky when you have a sharp razor in your hand and you need to wear glasses for close - up work however. Glasses tend to steam up in the bathroom, so proceed with caution!

I found going outside in the back yard so my glasses didn't steam up didn't go down too well with the neighbours either....

[Simon]

I was very nervous too. They're used to it. It would be a good idea to mention that it's your first time (with an escort, that is... if you're a virgin, maybe you should mention that too!). I recommend letting her give you a massage first, it helps you chill out. There seems to be a convention that if the client lies on the bed face down, he wants a massage first.

It definitely gets easier, especially when you're going back to a familiar girl in a familiar venue. However, there is then a danger of becoming infatuated with that one girl. I suggest going back to her until you feel confident, then seeing someone else (you can always go back to the first one later).

Not all attempts will end in an actual meeting, so for your first time I'd recommend a girl with a reputation for reliability (check her feedback). If a tempting girl with no feedback catches your eye, hotlist her but wait awhile before trying to meet her.

As for communication, it usually goes like this: guy emails to suggest a day/time, girl emails back to confirm, guy makes AW booking, guy texts on the day to confirm (she may text him first), guy texts when he's ready to set off and requests directions, girl texts approximate directions (hotel or street), guy texts to say he's in the area, girl gives room number or full address when she's ready. Some girls prefer calls (check her profile), but texts have a number of advantages: they are discreet if there are others within earshot, they can be received when the person is busy and read later, and addresses and suchlike can be kept for as long as needed.

[Sparky]

Just when my nerves seemed to be under control, I've gone and booked myself an overnight....

That should get the adrenaline flowing again

Might start a thread for some hints and tips, but will have a read through what's already been posted first.

[Strawberryblonde]

Yes I've met newbies who've been shaking with nerves, or who cannot look or kiss me. We've almost always gotten over that and one guy I saw a few times went on to become a fairly savvy punter. It's quite normal to be nervous, and even season punters get some nerves before meeting a lady new to them for the first time. I say if you didn't have any nerves at all I'd be a little worried, because it could be a sign you'd become blase about the whole thing.

My advice is find someone who's experienced, and put some trust in her. Nothing worse than a newbie working themselves up by asking question after question, trying to plan everything in minute detail. If she's any good her reports, reviews and profile will give a good idea what will happen. Also I think it's best keeping it simple the first couple of times, planning to fit in every sexual fantasy you've ever had only increases the pressure on both parties.

Above all enjoy the experience and leave walking tall.

[dianamurphy]

I would strongly advise against a first booking as an overnighter, I know plenty of girls (myself included) who would not accept an overnight booking with somebody they'd never met before! How do you know you will be able to stand being in each other's company for all that time? I would suggest an hours booking with the girl to start with before even contemplating spending such a long time with somebody.