Emotional attachment

[Krediton]

Is there a risk that you could get emotionally attached to an escort and how do you overcome this

[x Connie x]

i don't think there's any harm in feeling a connection with your escort, especially if its someone who you see regularly - after all it is a pretty intimate relationship.

as long as you can respect her boundaries this shouldn't be a big problem for you. for example, if you want your escort to go out for a drink and she declines, you should not take this personally - she is just trying to keep her work and personal life seperate. another girl may agree to accompany you but wish to be paid for her time again this should not cause you offence. rarely a girl will be happy to see you outside of work and you should appreciate and not abuse this by constantly expecting it, calling at unsociable hours etc. if you just stick to seeing your girl at her place then i see no drawbacks to having a good connection.

if you feel it would be too easy for you to get attached then the best way to avoid it would be to see many different girls instead of someone regular. hope this helps.

[Krediton]

i don't think there's any harm in feeling a connection with your escort, especially if its someone who you see regularly - after all it is a pretty intimate relationship.

as long as you can respect her boundaries this shouldn't be a big problem for you. for example, if you want your escort to go out for a drink and she declines, you should not take this personally - she is just trying to keep her work and personal life seperate. another girl may agree to accompany you but wish to be paid for her time again this should not cause you offence. rarely a girl will be happy to see you outside of work and you should appreciate and not abuse this by constantly expecting it, calling at unsociable hours etc. if you just stick to seeing your girl at her place then i see no drawbacks to having a good connection.

if you feel it would be too easy for you to get attached then the best way to avoid it would be to see many different girls instead of someone regular. hope this helps.

Thanks Connie that is the best and most honest response I have received and in effect answers exactly what was going through my mind , the trouble we seeing many girls is that oftenm you lose all emotional connection , so the balance is difficult
Appreciate xx

[Trinity-Belle]

i don't think there's any harm in feeling a connection with your escort, especially if its someone who you see regularly - after all it is a pretty intimate relationship.

as long as you can respect her boundaries this shouldn't be a big problem for you. for example, if you want your escort to go out for a drink and she declines, you should not take this personally - she is just trying to keep her work and personal life seperate. another girl may agree to accompany you but wish to be paid for her time again this should not cause you offence. rarely a girl will be happy to see you outside of work and you should appreciate and not abuse this by constantly expecting it, calling at unsociable hours etc. if you just stick to seeing your girl at her place then i see no drawbacks to having a good connection.

if you feel it would be too easy for you to get attached then the best way to avoid it would be to see many different girls instead of someone regular. hope this helps.

You are so spot on there Connie... I've never seen it expressed quite so clearly before.

There is a really delicate line between having a relationship of sorts and ending up with a guy who is besotted with you... in love, even. Once I know a guy has fallen i will try to talk sense to him and make him see that it's just never going to happen, but if I can't bring him around then I will drop him altogether, for his sake and also for my own sanity's sake!

I need to keep my head straight and I need to keep my work and my private life separate. Sure, I love all of my regular guys and I consider myself to be in relationships with every single one of them... but it is a very specific kind of relationship and everyone needs to remember where the boundaries are.

[Simon]

if you feel it would be too easy for you to get attached then the best way to avoid it would be to see many different girls instead of someone regular. hope this helps.

Thanks Connie that is the best and most honest response I have received and in effect answers exactly what was going through my mind , the trouble we seeing many girls is that oftenm you lose all emotional connection , so the balance is difficult
Appreciate xx

In my case, I met my first escort twice, then met several others, then went back to the first one several months later. I have now seen her five times, but I'm still seeing others. I was initially concerned about infatuation, but now it's a sort of "good to be home" feeling.

You'll find the balance that works best for you.

[Krediton]

if you feel it would be too easy for you to get attached then the best way to avoid it would be to see many different girls instead of someone regular. hope this helps.

Thanks Connie that is the best and most honest response I have received and in effect answers exactly what was going through my mind , the trouble we seeing many girls is that oftenm you lose all emotional connection , so the balance is difficult
Appreciate xx

In my case, I met my first escort twice, then met several others, then went back to the first one several months later. I have now seen her five times, but I'm still seeing others. I was initially concerned about infatuation, but now it's a sort of "good to be home" feeling.

You'll find the balance that works best for you.

Thanks Simon much appreciated , I am going through that balance and maybe need to see a few more Girls to keep me level headed.