How do you know if an ecort girl really likes you?

[bp95]

Yeah, I realise it now but it's comforting to know that someone sees it as that too

[sarahxxx]

Do you think it's right that a bloke should feel upset if nothing physical happens, even if you've given him an hour of your time and he's still had fun, but not the fun he was expecting when he walked through the door?

That surely must be a rhetorical question....

When you part with money for either a product or service and do not get what you wanted / aggreed upon then you have been ripped off. Should you, as you describe, still gad some fun or got a product but of lesser value then you should be entitled to some of your money back. Apart from the "I am not a prostitute, I am an escort and you are paying for my time" clause, in which case you got your time with the person.

I think the street walker has it summed up with the simplest of sayings "You looking for business?"

And that is what you get, however you may wish to dress it up, nurse, police woman, traffic warden etc...

Sarah x x x

[bp95]

Yeah, thinking through, it's rhetorical. Still had a good time in her company, but now those memories are tainted by the fact that deep down I know she knew she was getting away with not paying me very much attention physically. And escort-clause or not, that's what the time should be about. I was just fooling myself with the friend thing, but maybe it was a way of trying to justify to myself getting a bad service for such a heavy outlay. The problem was I was too nice about it and hoped it would work itself right. WRONG! Shame, I haven't got any bad feelings about her, who can blame her for making the most of a cushy situation where someone pays up regardless, but of course - I'm well disappointed now.

Making up for it this year already by seeing some cracking ladies and having a very uncomplicated and enjoyable time

[matrix837]

rodtheman37 - tread carefully, chap. For a period of 6 months last year I saw an escort who has an amazing character and personality, but in terms of being physical with me made me feel very underappreciated and pretty useless. Saw her in total about 18 or 19 times (at £150 an hour...), and about half of those times did absolutely nothing physical with her at all. She'd always tout via email if I hadn't got in touch for a week or so, and I tricked myself into thinking that's because she liked me as a person and I would have really been happy to just be friends with her, but I also found myself competing with the feedback she'd had from other people regarding her services and was really disappointed when I didn't get that. After a while, even if I tried to kiss her or give her a shoulder rub I'd be met with frigidity. But kept going back because I thought maybe next time she'll want to do something, and if not - well we're becoming friends, right?

Told her over Christmas that I didn't think I could this any more because I wanted to be friends and that I was coming to the conclusion that she wasn't at all, and she said "But we are friends! I like it this way because it means there are no complications." Then I asked if she'd be happy to be a friend without the physical privileges and got no reply at all. End of the relationship right there.

Thing that hurts is that there was stuff about our time together that you really couldn't fake, I know she liked my company. But I think she found I was an easier person to extract £150 a pop from without any real effort on her behalf. Things I would have let her get away with (cancelling at the last minute) if we were mates, but now I know I was only ever a client to her, make me feel as though as an individual I was very unimportant to her.

Ask her if she'll see you outside of escorting, even if it's just as a friendship, and you will get your answer... Truth hurts but it sets you free and all that.

Serious question, and I don't mind if the answer shows me up to be a fluffy walkover - how many times have you other guys gone to see an escort and had nothing physical happen at all?

Wow, you're some guy. I always get physical when I go to see an escort as that is why I am paying.I punt for sex and sex only. If I want some company. I have a wife at home. I wont spend my hard-earned money for someone to mess me about.

[bp95]

Wow, you're some guy.

Haha - what do you mean? That I'm nice, or a sap?

[matrix837]

I think you're too nice and that makes you come across as weak. Sorry to say but you'll learn as you meet with more ladies who wont take advantage of you.

[bp95]

Yeah, got the concept of that weighed down for this year. Will definitely have a few different girls, rather than finding one to be a regular with. Shame, I will miss the relationship that strikes up when you see someone a lot and become familiar, but I won't lament the frustration.

[EliteAnnalise]

I don't see why you still can't see an Escort on a regular basis, just choose one who will actually let you have sex with them when you visit!

[bp95]

Good point! Touche

[Freddo]

Well BP95 she took you for a ride well and truely, to be honest I thought I was one of the biggest suckers around for paying for a escorts time and leaving before the end because she was boring and uninteresting and I could not get any excitment from the clinical approach.

She took you for a mug well and truely I am fortunate enough to have a few escorts that I class as friends. They are fairly strange and will not mind me saying it. I have posted about them before. One lady cannot mix her outside life with buisness its a shame because she is one of the best in the buisness and believe me I have seen a fair few ladies. She would not dream of charging when we are having a coffee or a chat. In fact it all started with me helping her out in her private life. There are a few more that if I am working I will pop in for a chat and a hug now I still see them occassionally as escorts but we keep a big difference between escort bookings and mates chats. I only ever see them if work takes me near .If I see them as escorts I will book up in the normal way. The sex is great but the travelling is crap they really do live to far away for me to be a regular.

I probably see all of them as mates in a coffee shop or somewhere than a sescorts as work takes me close by probably once every couple of weeks