29-10-2011, 18:59
As the title says : Infatuation/Lust/Love - how do you differentiate between the three ?
I've been in all three situations at different times in my life and it is only now that I am older that I know the difference.
Which do I prefer .................... I don't know, they all have their benefits.
Infatuation ............. its nice but is not always reciprocated. Very often mistaken for love but its not till we REALLY fall in love do we know the difference.
Lust ..... well I liked that one because of all the sex that was involved with no real strings.
Love ............. well that came with my marriage. I realise now that the guys I thought I loved before I got married were really only strong infatuations. But I didnt know that at the time.
The Love I talk about is Love for a Guy and not Love for my children which is a totally different kind of love which any parent will know.
The love we have for our children is in my case anyway unconditional and never dies. The love for a guy .......................................... can go at any time and no one can tell if/when it can turn to hate or just plain die.
I'd like to hear others thoughts now ......................
I've been in all three situations at different times in my life and it is only now that I am older that I know the difference.
Which do I prefer .................... I don't know, they all have their benefits.
Infatuation ............. its nice but is not always reciprocated. Very often mistaken for love but its not till we REALLY fall in love do we know the difference.
Lust ..... well I liked that one because of all the sex that was involved with no real strings.
Love ............. well that came with my marriage. I realise now that the guys I thought I loved before I got married were really only strong infatuations. But I didnt know that at the time.
The Love I talk about is Love for a Guy and not Love for my children which is a totally different kind of love which any parent will know.
The love we have for our children is in my case anyway unconditional and never dies. The love for a guy .......................................... can go at any time and no one can tell if/when it can turn to hate or just plain die.
I'd like to hear others thoughts now ......................
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