The thing that bugs me when an escort retires

[Tom30]

The majority of them this is;

They just out of the blue close down their websites or delete their profiles without any word as to why or any fair well's.

Ive been seeing escorts for 4 years now, and have seen quite a few escorts who ive previously seen or had my eye on seeing sooner or later. Then bam, gone.

The main one i miss was a girl in London i was seeing about 12-18 months ago we met a few times for 2-3 hour bookings and one time she came up to me in Birmingham for an overnight, we clicked reasonably well, and the sex was great id probably consider her as the best shag ive ever had, or in my top 2 or 3.
Then her profile dissapeared for like a month then she started a new one up saying her profile was hacked, the new profile lasted for say 2-4 months and now over the last few months i havnt been able to find her profile anywhere.

Thats just one escort though, i suppose who had problems with whatever. But it seems almost all escorts dont leave a message saying theyve retired and maybe stating why. As it is, im left wondering/concerned for them if theyre ok, and not been raped, caught HIV/whatever, killed, or such.

Just remove the pictures, delete info, leave a message, sorted. If its a website leave it like ive just said, then the website host will auto delete the site once the subscription cost hasnt been renewed.

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

The same could be said for guys who decide to stop visiting a specific escort Tom30. Would you contact an escort you had been seeing regularly to say you werent going to visit them again. Escorts wonder about some of their clients too in the same circumstances, we just have to get on with living.

Do you get where I'm coming from? Im not trying to be offensive but escorts cant contact clients to let them know as this would be very indiscrete. They could be contacting when you are with a significant other.

[English Kate]

You took the words out of my mouth Linzi. Exactly what I was going to say.

[lucy7]

When I quit I will loudly and proudly announce it and have a party!
It will not be until I sell up and move though.

Lucy

[English Kate]

When I quit I will loudly and proudly announce it and have a party!
It will not be until I sell up and move though.

Lucy

Which country will I be visiting you in?

[sarahxxx]

Many profiles on AW do state they are retired, some even come back, more than once! Some announce a retirement to boost business and then claim not to retire due to not wanting to disappoint so many clients. And yes, others just disappear as I have done on many occasions.

I think you are being a little unfair, after all you do not know the circumstances. Adultwork used to shut profiles down for no apparent reason and on one occasion when they did a major upgrade my account simply disappeared.

Linzi put it in perspective, nobody actually owes anybody anything, after all, how many punters "Cheat" on escorts by seeing others?

Sarah

[monty69]

I would agree with the ladies Tom on this one. Whilst I appreciate the frustrations that you experience, I do think that it is a two way thing. I also believe that, if you have sufficiently clicked with a lady and see her regularly, she would let you know.

Dont forget that, by seeing an escort, you would be encouraged to feel special at the meet, you would get the feeling that you are the most important person at that meet and that a good escort can have a certain detachment in order to ensure that every client she has is special.

Many ladies on here live a double life in that business does not bleed into private life - and I applaud them for that. It doesnt mean they dont enjoy what they do, all it means is that they are careful not to become attached to their clients too much mentally.

I probably havent explained myself too well but hopefully everyone will get the jist.

[davidseven]

Many profiles on adultwork do state they are retired, some even come back, more than once! Some announce a retirement to boost business and then claim not to retire due to not wanting to disappoint so many clients. And yes, others just disappear as I have done on many occasions.

I think you are being a little unfair, after all you do not know the circumstances. Adultwork used to shut profiles down for no apparent reason and on one occasion when they did a major upgrade my account simply disappeared.

Linzi put it in perspective, nobody actually owes anybody anything, after all, how many punters "Cheat" on escorts by seeing others?

Sarah

I think this is important. And as Monty said, many have to juggle two separate and distinct lives.
I do know of one instance personally, where the public reason for retirement was totally at odds with the real reason, and as difficult as it was for her regulars, I would hope they had excepted her reasons with good grace and wished her all the best for the future without enquiring too deeply.

[tinkerbell]

i myself do,....and if i needed to i would throw out my phone and close down every single site at a moments notice...

[Laudanum]

If I had a penny for each time a gentleman said they were going to call me at a certain time, or keep in touch--right before disappearing off the face of the earth, I would be a very rich person by now. I'm afraid it goes with the territory, for both sides of the equation.

One of my major hates is when someone just hangs up on me and doesn't say goodbye. I always wish my callers well, and ask them to take care before I end a call. I can tell the difference between credits running out, and a hangup call. There's a lot that's going to annoy both sides generally.