I wonder why?

[Yankee Dude]

I never discuss one escort with another it is bad manners for a start

I agree 100%. Ladies who make problems for other ladies use this as a favorite tactic. I refuse to play that particuler game.

[SassyAnn]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

[Lady_Lust_XXX]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

Because sometimes when we are feeling vulnerable and lonely we allow a little chink in our armour to open and it is through this chink in the armour they get in and in a cancerous way eat away at us even when we dont realise it. We have to learn to realise when that 'chink in our armour' is 'open' and know when NOT to let our guards down.

Many people come in to our lives in different ways .. some come for a while, others stay for a reason and sometimes a season and show us their magificent essence for purpose and then leave .. and then there are others that say forever. These are the ones that count ...................... We just have to learn to know the difference .... whether they are a stayer .... or a goer ............................

[English Kate]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

I have to agree with you on that one, although for me I would swap blubbering wreck with 'turned on'. One of the wonderful things about this job is that you do move away from your usual 'type' as you never know who is going to walk through the door and I've had some amazing times with men I would never have looked at twice.

I think personality has a lot to do with it Ann and being on the same wavelength can really make a difference.

[Hicky]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

I have to agree with you on that one, although for me I would swap blubbering wreck with 'turned on'. One of the wonderful things about this job is that you do move away from your usual 'type' as you never know who is going to walk through the door and I've had some amazing times with men I would never have looked at twice.

I think personality has a lot to do with it Ann and being on the same wavelength can really make a difference.

I do understand what Ann is getting at but is this only to do with your job. When i was younger and dated a lot I would go out with all sorts of differnet girls with allsorts of different looks so I have to say I did not have a type. So personally i have never had a stereotyyped look that appeals to me.
And as we all get older, much as we fight it, none of us look like we did when we were 19 - so hair loss and thickening waist is just a fact of life for both women and men (well hopefully not the hair loss for most women!)
Plus we do as we get older tend to look for quality of company where as when we are young we tend to forget allsorts of character flaws for a good face and body as our hormones rage through our blood.

[Freddo]

I wonder why I spent so much money today?

Spending money is a good way of feeling better, it seems to take all the aches and pains away, that is of course until you see your bank balance

[English Kate]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

I have to agree with you on that one, although for me I would swap blubbering wreck with 'turned on'. One of the wonderful things about this job is that you do move away from your usual 'type' as you never know who is going to walk through the door and I've had some amazing times with men I would never have looked at twice.

I think personality has a lot to do with it Ann and being on the same wavelength can really make a difference.

I do understand what Ann is getting at but is this only to do with your job. When i was younger and dated a lot I would go out with all sorts of differnet girls with allsorts of different looks so I have to say I did not have a type. So personally i have never had a stereotyyped look that appeals to me.
And as we all get older, much as we fight it, none of us look like we did when we were 19 - so hair loss and thickening waist is just a fact of life for both women and men (well hopefully not the hair loss for most women!)
Plus we do as we get older tend to look for quality of company where as when we are young we tend to forget allsorts of character flaws for a good face and body as our hormones rage through our blood.

I can't speak for other women, but no I can't agree with you on that one. I just want it all lol. I have always looked at my bfs as 'breeders', so they have all had to be healthy, fit, good looking and intelligent. Anything else got rejected very quickly and it was usually the intelligence bit that got them kicked out lol,

When I was swinging, I still chose men for 1 to 1 play in exactly the same way and if I am honest, I often managed to bag myself a man that was above my own personal bar aesthetically speaking, as there are so many men desperate for sex without attachment. I went straight from this to Escorting, so it was a bit of a culture shock to begin with and one that has taken time for me to evaluate and except that my way was not necessarily the right way. It will be most interesting to see how I handle dating after this is all over and done with. Oh and if I'm lucky I'll be like my Mum and improve with age. Fingers crossed.

[A Bloke]

I wonder why guys who, on paper, shouldn't do anything for you (older, balding, thickening waist, short etc) can turn you into a blubbering wreck.

It's because we have to try harder.

[digger1967a]

LOL, Like the reply there 'A Bloke'!
Cyber heckler turning cyber stalker here Sassy, only kidding, but u said I din't 'know u'! So I am trying! U can beat me up for it tomorrow! LOL

[SassyAnn]

Good grief. We shall have serious words, never you fret.