for the attached ladies

[MrSmith767]

It was asked this week, why we men visit you ladies, but...

Those of you who have an OH, how did you broach the subject of your chosen career path? Were you doing this when you met them?

How would you feel about your OH seeing another escort?

Looking forward to your answers, I am sure they will be pretty varied.

[tinkerbell]

ummmm well i met my other half in a bar, hes a drummer in a band, and i was a bit drunk and we were getting on very well

and i just blurted it out

his reaction was very cool very relaxed about the whole thing, he asked me out on a date the day after and i did not react well haha

"you dont want to date a fucking escort you idiot!" i didnt think anyone would accept me for my job and he said he didnt care, people do worse things haha

he has never seen as escort as far as i know we are quite good on those levels so we know what each other are capable of

he did say to me he would be upset if i seen someone who wasnt paying for me...as i would be

---

i just dont talk about it in front of him for obvious reasons lol

[English Kate]

He sounds really nice Tinks.

[MrSmith767]

He sounds great, very understanding.

[Emily of Halifax]

Mine is a very complex situation but here goes (gulp)

About 9 years ago was booked for an appointment that ended up being about 7/8/hours and he was of his head was asleep most of the time, I was going through a slight wild stage at the time and to be honest thought afterwards that i could milk the situation he was a lot older than me with money(not proud of this)

A couple of days after the booking I rang him and we ended up seeing each other I thought it would just be a bit of a laugh at the time but it turned out that he was alcoholic and cocaine addict big style, strangely enough I grew quite attached to him but his lifestyle grew out of control total downward spiral. i had met his business partner just in passing and the day came where he was actually admitted to hospital because of his addictions I tried ringng him before i knew of this, a woman answered(his wife) he told me he was divorced she asked if I was the prostitute that he had been with so rang his business partner to find out what the hell was going on we grew to be really good friends I even bought a car of him but he always knew what I did for a living he would ring me every few days to make sure I was ok.

Anyway after a few weeks of this he rang and asked me out for a drink I said yes that was the Friday night moved in with me on the sunday and asked me to marry him the same night and have never looked back

we have a very open relationship but dont go into great detail about actual bookings basically its he comes home and the conversation goes how was your day dear fine pet how was yours it works for us but i know if there was any problems he would be the first person that I would turn to

A bit hypoctitical I know but I could never ever cope with him being with another woman

[tinkerbell]

i see exactly what you mean em....it would freak me out totally if i found out he cheated or he seen another escort

he is lovley and hes just perfect for me, even when my mates met him they said he was made for me lol, tall, long haired blonde, goatee and plays an instrument haha

[lucy7]

Well I started up in the paid sex scene as Lucy and Hubby, so all we did we did together.
Lucy7 came out to play alone when my hubby had a bit of a health problem for a few months about a year and a half ago.
So many of our MMF gentleman callers started messaging us asking if they could just meet with me.
We said no for quite a while, then one day my hubby said why don't you meet with John, I trust him.....my eyes lit up....the deed was done!
Then he said well why don't you meet with Paul from Harrogate......I did.
Before I knew it he had said if you want to meet others go for it.....I did.

We are back doing our Lucy and Hubby meets now but only twice a week as I am busy with Lucy7 meets.
He adores to share me sexually and socially and gets off on it to be honest.

If he met with another escort I would kill him.
Double standards......oh yes, but that is the way it is.
He can share his toy, I can not!

Lucy

[iluvjem]

It was asked this week, why we men visit you ladies, but...

Those of you who have an OH, how did you broach the subject of your chosen career path? Were you doing this when you met them?

How would you feel about your OH seeing another escort?

Looking forward to your answers, I am sure they will be pretty varied.

My husband has been with me the whole way. He himself was no stranger to the Industry knowing people in the industry and has worked on glamour/adult shoots before (behind the camera lol).

What is I do is my job. My OH seeing escorts is absolutely out of the question. Thankfully though I have nothing to worry about in the department MrJem would never choose to see an escort lol

[Vlodina]

I find all your replies very interesting. I don't escort and have a boyfriend of 5 years.

I initially got into sex lines, and at the time I would have done anything to get out of hospitality management. Although I was enjoying it, it wasn't very profitable. Thankfully I then discovered AW and taking the plunge camming was very scary (as my first phone call was too!) as I'm sure it is for most of us. Being AW, I get asked by every second punter if I escort. Sometimes I ask them how much they would pay to sleep with me. It's a lot of money...

Having spoken about it with my boyfriend, we decided that if someone offered me an outrageous amount of money and if my boyfriend could come as bodyguard (ala Shad in Striptease) then I should do it. After than I told a punter that if he offered 2 grand, I would think about it. He said that was fine but it would be overnight. Have I taken it further? No. I feel I don't want to do it, because of my boyfriend, but that at the same time it would be stupid not to, just for one shift essentually.

If I was single I think I would do it (or at least give it a go), but I think it would be too wierd in my current situation. But who knows?

[abcdef]

vlodina only do things u are at ease with dont try escorting for all the wrong reasons