why do u use forums

[Freddo]

I generally don't get worried by flirting etc, although sometimes I do wish people would get a room. I think a couple of flirty responses are fine and can make you smile, but after that it just takes over the thread and should be taken into private or taken back on topic.

My main frustration is when people don't post for ages and when they do it is purely a way to promote themselves or an event they are involved in. There are a few classifieds that really need to be deleted and I hope I can be of more support to lolo now I'm back home, as she has had to do a one man show for a while and a great show at that!

Its good to see you back Kate. No flirty response here, I think in my own personnal opinion that this forum is very well run. I have been on a few where you can be got rid of or suspended for posting the truth.
I do not mind if ladies promote themselves its a good way of finding out where they are going to be at certain times and days but it should not be open to abuse
and that is where the mods come in