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[Hicky]

I would prefer to pay up front and get it out of the way - the trouble is if you leave it until later it's so easy to forget and the can lead to great embarassment.
And i would hasten to add not just because the male forgets. I recall seeing someone i know quite well and who i would class as a friend. We had not meet for a while and just chatted and caught up when we meet - one thing led to another and then it was half time. Me "xxx the money is on bedside table". her "okay fine". Second half starts and finishes. Shower time for me but as I go in - me "don't forget money is on bedside table" - her "okay thanks hun". Out of shower - more chat - fond goodbyes - she trats to leave - me rush to door "you forgot money".
I would have been mortified if she had left without it.
Maybe she is a one off but makes me wonder how she makes money!!! love her to bits all the same.