What do you want

[pete856]

I think the average punter wants a bit of certainty. Is the girl real, does she really turn up/answer the door? Does she charge what she says and do what she says she does for that money? Can she direct me to her place and can I park OK there.

It helps for the girl to look good with photos - amateur or pro - that appear to be ral without photoshop and don't show off the poor elements of the body.

A profile that doesn't shout about all the things not to do, that answers emails unless asking for phonecalls instead.

A positive attitude on the phone (at least until anyone shows himself to be a prat).

Punters worry that the girl is fake, there is a bloke to threaten him and he will get fleeced.

Then yes, a good looker and some intimate services...

Really good post that. Focus on the things you definitely want to do so that I'm certain you're happy if I ask for it, or I can just ignore your profile if we don't match.

Regarding photos, if you're able to show your face (realise this often isn't the case) then that helps. Many (both men and women) seem to forget that smily eyes are the sexiest thing. And eyes need some light (but not enough to make you squint) and focus to look good.

For those of us not good at articulating what we want, a service where the lady leads would be good (and I'm not talking dominatrix).

I'm not a particularly experienced punter, but I find the service that's the biggest let down when asking for the GFE is french kissing even when it is clearly stated on the profile. I don't think it's my breath ;-) and I hope it isn't me in general, but I get the impression that often they don't want to do it. Fine, but I wish in that case it hadn't been advertised.