why do u use forums

[sarahxxx]

I Always a secret gmail email account for this work, delete all old emails regularly, and I use a program called ccleaner (google it) to erase internet history, caches, recent files etc.

Good advice NiceName

The correct web site to use is http://www.piriform.com/ccleaner - If you google you do not always get what you wish for, some popular free programs get hijacked to look a like sites and programs are tampered with.

It is a good tool for the PC especially for wiping data from internet browsers. you can set it to run at start up so every time you reboot it cleans out your system. it has other uses too

However, it does not matter how careful you are or how you try and hide what you do, secret this / secret that. As in lolo's post, the guy involved may have been just as careful, BUT, in his excitement to meet, rushed out of the house forgetting to "Secure" his secrets. One simple error is all it takes no matter how careful you think you have been.

well i joined really so i could be in the company of other ladies that do what i do, as i don't really know anyone else to talk to

I agree with that, I do not socialise with or know anybody else that works, so it is good to get different points of view. I also have this thought on life:

If I can help somebody I will
If I can learn something I will

And via a forum, should I have a problem or need advice, I can also ask

Sarah