20-01-2021, 13:40
Let me start with stating that I'm sorry that you have not found a Mistress who could meet your needs.
On the other hand I think it is important to understand the difference between Findom, Femdom, Bdsm etc...
I agree with you that there is a vast ammount of "Insta Dommes" out there who think Findom is just a simple way of earning money.
On the other hand comparing it to "staff's politeness" in Tesco is inappropriate.
When you walk into the shop you don't see a member of staff pitching a sale of butter to you do you?
You look at the price of product and decide if this is what you would like to buy or not.
You don't stand there and have a discussion with a member of staff "I will pay for this butter if you drop your price by 20%" or elaborate why do you need butter wasting their time.
If a Domme has clearly stated in her Bio she requires a tribute it is your choice to use her services or not.
But again... When you decide to go to the cinema you pay for a ticket BEFORE you see the movie not afterwards. And tributes are just that...tickets for your movie.
On a subject of calling people losers, pigs, mutts etc... Time line post of twitter are designed to cater to wide audience (vast majority of Subs want to be degraded) hence "terminology"... When you approach a Domme in private is only acceptable that she addresses you as "Sub" and then asks you your prefered name (whatever it may be).
NO RESPECTABLE DOMME WOULD EVER CALL YOU RETARDED!
Respectable Dommes will gain your consent first! Don't be surprised if they will also ask for age verification (I always do!)
"Findom is when you send money and gifts to these ungrateful sods, like I'm sure a lot of desperate dickheads do. Like, dude. Get a life. Or a girlfriend. Now."
Don't disrespect other people's kinks! I'm pretty sure you wouldn't appreciate anyone calling you a" desperat dickhead" for wanting your ass "sensually whooped" for money right?
Having said all of this i hope you will soon find a Mistress you will meet your expectations ?
On the other hand I think it is important to understand the difference between Findom, Femdom, Bdsm etc...
I agree with you that there is a vast ammount of "Insta Dommes" out there who think Findom is just a simple way of earning money.
On the other hand comparing it to "staff's politeness" in Tesco is inappropriate.
When you walk into the shop you don't see a member of staff pitching a sale of butter to you do you?
You look at the price of product and decide if this is what you would like to buy or not.
You don't stand there and have a discussion with a member of staff "I will pay for this butter if you drop your price by 20%" or elaborate why do you need butter wasting their time.
If a Domme has clearly stated in her Bio she requires a tribute it is your choice to use her services or not.
But again... When you decide to go to the cinema you pay for a ticket BEFORE you see the movie not afterwards. And tributes are just that...tickets for your movie.
On a subject of calling people losers, pigs, mutts etc... Time line post of twitter are designed to cater to wide audience (vast majority of Subs want to be degraded) hence "terminology"... When you approach a Domme in private is only acceptable that she addresses you as "Sub" and then asks you your prefered name (whatever it may be).
NO RESPECTABLE DOMME WOULD EVER CALL YOU RETARDED!
Respectable Dommes will gain your consent first! Don't be surprised if they will also ask for age verification (I always do!)
"Findom is when you send money and gifts to these ungrateful sods, like I'm sure a lot of desperate dickheads do. Like, dude. Get a life. Or a girlfriend. Now."
Don't disrespect other people's kinks! I'm pretty sure you wouldn't appreciate anyone calling you a" desperat dickhead" for wanting your ass "sensually whooped" for money right?
Having said all of this i hope you will soon find a Mistress you will meet your expectations ?
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