08-07-2011, 13:25
Lol sorry about that little hiccup yesterday. Hicky knows how wound up I get about this matter. This is where some places suit better than others and why I initially liked this place, as I felt I could be myself and not worry about the odd innuendo slipping out (it's second nature for me) and just enjoy having a laugh.
I am a little old fashioned and because I need to be desired I find instigating or touting difficult to do, as it won't necessarily get me what I want, ie to be desired.
However, if someone pm's me then I will always reply and enjoy getting to know that person better. I guess the reason why I'm able to be confident in my work, is because I take it for granted that the person is with me because they fancy me and have no reason to suspect otherwise, whereas on a forum, you are just another person until you are told differently; plus I know there are lots of gorgeous women on here and great characters, so I would never assume that I was top of someones list and it's nice to just enjoy the company.
Having said all that, if there were a topic being talked about on here and there was an obvious similar interest/connection that could be talked about in more depth off the forum, then yes I would naturally pm the person to continue talking about it. That would not be connected with sex though, more like a subject like art or cooking or a place of interest etc. You know what I mean
I sometimes think I'm shyer than what shy Ann was, so I'm glad she has changed her name, as it really didn't fit lol.
I am a little old fashioned and because I need to be desired I find instigating or touting difficult to do, as it won't necessarily get me what I want, ie to be desired.
However, if someone pm's me then I will always reply and enjoy getting to know that person better. I guess the reason why I'm able to be confident in my work, is because I take it for granted that the person is with me because they fancy me and have no reason to suspect otherwise, whereas on a forum, you are just another person until you are told differently; plus I know there are lots of gorgeous women on here and great characters, so I would never assume that I was top of someones list and it's nice to just enjoy the company.
Having said all that, if there were a topic being talked about on here and there was an obvious similar interest/connection that could be talked about in more depth off the forum, then yes I would naturally pm the person to continue talking about it. That would not be connected with sex though, more like a subject like art or cooking or a place of interest etc. You know what I mean
I sometimes think I'm shyer than what shy Ann was, so I'm glad she has changed her name, as it really didn't fit lol.