02-07-2011, 08:41
(02-07-2011, 06:04)Pan Wrote: I used to punt for the rush and the adrenaline dumped into my system from turning up at a new place every time (though I have had many regulars) for easy random sex with a stranger. A quick fuck lasting an hour at most. In those early days, yes, it was somewhat of an addiction
Nowadays, nine times out of ten I visit two divine regular ladies, who I have been lucky to find.. I prize these two ladies so highly as they offer me mental stimulation to the same level as the sexual.
I am stressful by nature, a highly strung individual and since getting into fitness seriously, I have learnt the need to control my cortisol levels. The individuals I escape to, completely de-stress me. Away from real life, time in their company is me time, worries put aside and peace ensues. The nature of the encounter means that you can talk about it with very few people, face to face, if any? I often find that escorts also find this type of conversation very satisfying and cathartic. This is why I never book less than two hours and more often than not the average is three.
Far from the days of addiction, this therapy of a kind, is what I have come to appreciate as the benefit and importance of escorting to me.
Not that there aren't those days when I do just want a damn good fuck, kinky and depraved as I can be at times.
Pan, you are exactly the kind of client that I seem to attract, which I have to admit is also exactly the way I like it. I love the mental stimulation as much as the physical and feel like I am learning so much from the conversations I have been having, be it to understand men a little better or how the economy works.
I love pampering too and the cuddles and stroking my hands through hair as we talk and come down from the sex. The job is fulfilling in so many ways and it is lovely to know that it's not just physical but helping with well being too. There is a lot of job satisfaction to be had from Escorting.
Having said that, it is also nice to get banged now and again lol. Variety is the spice of life!